Nature romantic relationship

 A new study suggests that high-quality romantic relationships are associated with fewer psycho-social difficulties in adolescence and young adulthood. 

The authors were interested in learning that when in youth's development the quality of a romantic relationship begins to be protective. In the study , 100 male and 100 female tenth graders from predominantly middle to upper-middle class neighbourhoods and a range of racial and ethnic backgrounds completed questionnaires for nine years. The researchers examined how support in the romantic relationship, conflict, and individuals' perceived satisfaction with the relationship were related to those indices of psycho-social adjustment. They also looked at how the ties between qualities of romantic relationships and youth's psycho-social adjustment changed as the youth grew into young adults.

Charlene Collibee of the University of Denver said they found that relationships that were more supportive and satisfying, and those that had fewer negative interactions were associated with better psycho-social adjustment, above and beyond the effects of simply being in a relationship. Collibee concluded it was not just having a romantic relationship that's linked to psycho-social functioning, but the nature of that relationship.

Sex is a big issue for Indian women

Wonder why your wife/girlfriend seems "off sex" of late? Why does she complain of a headache just when you are in the mood? Fact is, as with men, sex is a big issue for women too. Only, due to conditioning or lack of awareness.

Generally, women realise they have sexual problems only :
- It affects their relationship
- Their partner starts complaining
- When they are depressed
- When they themselves get involved in an extra-marital affair.

Younger women :
Sexual problems relate more to body image issues and 'performance anxiety'. Especially if they feel sex is the only way they can hold on to their relationship.

why change your life

 That will change your life in 2015

Giving our selves a mental makeover could be just as important as giving ourselves a physical one. But accomplishing that doesn't just lie in changing our thoughts -it's also dependent on changing our words.
How we speak -to others and to ourselves -has a huge impact on our overall outlook. So isn't it about time we started paying more attention to what we're communicating. Using your words to change your life?

 PLEASE
             It's among the smallest of words, but it suggests the biggest of manners -which, quite honestly, need to make a comeback. There are a host of benefits that come with practicing good man ners, from increasing social connection to helping you unplug.And think about it: Are you more likely to fulfill a favor if someone asks you nicely.

 BECAUSE
             It's a simple word, but it could help you get what you want. According to research published in the new book Magic Words: The Science and Secrets Behind Seven Words That Motivate, Engage, and Influence, those who reasoned with "because" in a sentence were more likely to receive what they asked for than those who made a request without the word.

 I'M BUSY
             This one is incredibly important. Put this phrase in your memory -then completely erase it. In the past year, we've been more burned out than ever, and our constant busyness is standing in the way of our capacity for joy. There's to the end of glorification for our culture's busyness, getting things done on little sleep, and feeling like we have to catch up with the race -because ultimately there is no race except for the one we assign ourselves to." In 2015, let's eliminate the word busy.

 THANK YOU
               According to Binghamton University research, only a third of people accept a compliment graciously. It's no secret that many of us get squeamish when receiving compliments -and as a result, the response is usually laced with self-depre cating humour that brushes off a genuine statement.

 GOOD NIGHT

              This phrase by itself isn't as important as when you say it. Say it as soon as you're tired. Too often, one of the first things we neglect is sleep, when we really should be prioritising it. According to a recent survey, more than half of American adults say they need at least eight hours of sleep --but nearly three quarters say they get less than that. 

  GRATEFUL 
              Research shows that expressing gratitude can make us happier and healthier -both common resolutions at the start of the new year. Keep a gratitude journal or just reflect on what you're thankful for at the end of each day.

OH WELL
               Not everything is going to turn out the way we planned and that's more than OK. Accepting life as it is instead of worrying about how it "should" be can be a freeing feeling.Stressing over the little things can negatively impact our lifespan, take a toll on our bodies and more. As one of the most popular songs advised, Let it go.

  MAY I HELP YOU ? 
              If someone you love is going through a hard time, sometimes the best way to support them is just offering to do so. "If you really want to help somebody, then the way you should go about it is to ask yourself if you can be supportive of the individual in a way that allows them to tell you about what they're experiencing and why they may be experiencing that," said Todd Farchione, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist at the Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders.Helping others isn't just good for them, it also can give you a boost.Research shows that giving back can increase self-satisfaction and a sense of purpose, while volunteering can improve longevity.

CAN YOU HELP
             Asking for help also carries weight. There's nothing wrong with admitting that you need a little assistance. In fact, it can be transformative. We're often worried that asking for help makes us look stupid, but one study found that seeking advice can actually make you appear more competent.

Bollywood Celebrities Live-in Relationships

Bollywood Celebrities Live-in Relationships
           Some live-in relationships materialise into marriage like Saif and Kareena's while others just fizzle out with time like John and Bipasha's. Here is a look at some of our desi celebrity couples.

Virat Kohli and Anushka Sharma
          Virat Kohli and Anushka Sharma made everything clear about their relationship to the world very recently. It was during a match, when Virat blew a flying kiss to Anushka after achieving a milestone. And now if the reports are to be believed, the couple is planning to move in together. According to a leading daily, Anushka has rented a flat near her Versova apartment, in Mumbai, so that the young couple can spend more time together. Virat Kohli, was quoted at a recent event as saying, "It is out in the open and we are not trying to hide anything." However, Anushka still seems to be preferring privacy, as she recently stated, "Being public figures, your relationship becomes a topic of entertainment for people, and for me that is not comfortable situation. It is something personal and pure for me."

Ranbir Kapoor and Katrina Kaif

           Ranbir and Katrina are the latest pair to join the list of Bollywood couples who are in a live-in relationship. If the latest news circling around the B-town is to be believed the couple has moved in together in their new flat, in suburban Mumbai. It is allegedly the same flat that they had bought together a couple of months ago. But, their plans of moving-in together got postponed apparently because of Rishi Kapoor's illness.

Abhay Deol and Preeti Desai
            For an actor who cares a damn about stereotypical “hero” roles on-screen, it is really not surprising to see him taking the unconventional path in real life also. On the talk show, India’s Most Desirable, Abhay confessed about his live-in relationship with Preeti Desai, a former Miss Great Britain. Abhay Deol has even went on to say that he might never consider marriage. "I think marriage is a cultural thing, it's my opinion that nature doesn't tell someone to get married. I may or may not get married but I will settle down in a live-in," confessed Abhay.

Aamir Khan and Kiran Rao

           Kiran Rao once said that she was not sure about marrying Aamir, until she moved in with him. That was when she realised that they had so much in common despite having their own ideologies. This couple connected on a more intrinsic level. Kiran had a certain positive effect on me. I started getting serious about her when I asked her to move in. Otherwise I would not have done that. We lived together for a year and a half before getting married.

Tulip Joshi and Captain Vinod Nair
           Actor Tulip Joshi found love in Captain Vinod Nair, a life coach and etiquette expert. Nair was married for a brief time before he met Tulip and the couple have been together for the past ten years. In an interview with Nisha Jamwal, a famous writer, Tulip said that it is not marriage but commitment that is important. I feel commitment is more from the heart, a certificate does not count. Tulip has also added that a clerk sitting in a marriage registration office drinking “masala chai” is nobody to empower her relationship with a stamp. The couple says that they are more committed than many married couples, who live through a sham for outer appearances.

Saif Ali Khan and Kareena Kapoor

              The couple with the royal looks, Saif and Kareena were also in a live-in relationship before they tied the knot in October 2012. Kareena was outspoken about her relationship and never shied away from accepting that she was in a live-in relationship with Saif. I have tried and tested the live-in relationship formula and now I can personally endorse it for modern Indian couples. And live-ins is a reality in modern India. I am a modern woman and I am glad I could live up to what I believe

Kunal Khemu and Soha Ali Khan
             Following the footprints of her brother, we have Soha Ali Khan. Actors, Soha and Kunal, have never been secretive about their relationship. Soha says that trusting and loving a person enough to move-in with him is a commitment equal to marriage. When you trust a person to that extent, signing the paper is no longer significant.

Sushant Singh and Ankita Ankita Lokhande

             Young hearthrob Sushant, is also in a live-in relationship with his girlfriend Ankita. They have been together for quite some time now, and are still going strong. Sushant has been quoted as saying, “Yes, I am in a live-in relationship with Ankita and I am fine about it. Both our parents are okay with our decision as well.” He has further added,  I never felt the need to hide my live-in relation.

When turns in to more sex

                   

 PENILE FRACTURES
                        This one's not funny, although it sounds incredulous. It's possible for men to `break' their penis, and that's odd considering the organ carries no bones. The injury is referred to as penile fracture and occurs when an erect penis is abruptly bent. You'll know when it happens because you will hear a crackle of a sound before experiencing excruciating pain and swelling followed by blue bruising in the area. If the urethra is torn too, bleeding in the urinary tract.

कोलकाता में कर दिखाया : KISS OF LOVE

तेरे सामने करेंगे प्यार


                            'संघी गुंडे होशियार, तेरे सामने करेंगे प्यार', के नारे लगाते हुए सैकड़ों छात्र-छात्राओं ने विश्वविद्यालय परिसर से हाथों में बैनर और पोस्टर लेकर 'किस ऑफ लव' रैली निकाली और कोई पांच सौ मीटर दूर स्थित चौराहे पर एक-दूसरे का कस कर चुंबन लिया।

All Happy Couples Do Every Day

               Well, we decided to spy on some couples, and reveal their “everyday” relationship habits that all of you must adopt as well. So, go ahead, read on and tag your better half in this as well!

1. They drop everything for each other
                  If your partner needs you, drop everything else and be there for him or her.
Nothing is more important than your partner’s need for you. This is one trait that every
happy couple has.
                In fact, super-happy couples go one step ahead. They allot some time every day
for each other and drop everything else for those beautiful moments.