Gay Marriage Bans

                    

While judges often play devil's advocate during oral arguments, the panel's
often-blistering questions for the defenders of the same sex marriage bans could be a
signal the laws may be in trouble — at least at this step in the legal process.

                   Attorneys general in both states asked the appellate court to permanently
restore the bans, which were ruled unconstitutional in June. Its ruling could affect hundreds
of couples who married after lower courts tossed the bans and before those rulings were
stayed pending the Chicago appeal.

                  Gay marriage is legal in 19 states as well as the District of Columbia, and
advocates have won more than 20 court victories around the country since the Supreme
Court ordered the U.S. government to recognize state-sanctioned gay marriages.

                   The U.S. Supreme Court has yet to take up a case, but Utah and Oklahoma cases
 were appealed to the high court and Virginia's attorney general also has asked the justices
to weigh in. Appeals court rulings are pending for Kentucky, Michigan, Ohio and Tennessee,
while appellate court hearings are scheduled next month for Hawaii, Oregon, Nevada, and is
expected soon in Texas.

                   Richard Posner, who was appointed by President Ronald Reagan in 1981, hit the
backers of the ban the hardest. He balked when Wisconsin Assistant Attorney General
Timothy Samuelson repeatedly pointed to "tradition" as the underlying justification for
barring gay marriage."It was tradition to not allow blacks and whites to marry — a tradition
 that got swept away," the 75-year-old judge said.

                   Prohibition of same sex marriage, Posner to the Wisconsin attorney, derives from
"a tradition of hate ... and savage discrimination" of homosexuals.Posner, who has a
reputation for making lawyers before him squirm, frequently cut off Indiana Solicitor
General Thomas Fisher, just moments into his presentation and chided him to answer his
questions.   more >>

Mother-In-Law is Unhappy With You

                This relationship consists of various ups and downs in most of the cases. You might share a great relationship with your mother-in-law but sometimes, things could turn sour without you even knowing if there is something wrong. Hence, you need to be aware of the signs through which she might express her dissatisfaction, so that you can sort things out before they go out of hand.Here are seven signs which imply that your mother-in-law might be unhappy with you:

1.  Cold war
             A good relationship might turn sour when your mother-in-law decides to give you the cold shoulder suddenly. She might even restrict conversation to household chores without even asking you how your day has been. When this happens, there are high chances of something being wrong, which merits attention. Silence often means that she may not condone your actions or may be unhappy with you for something you did.Find out the reasons behind periodic behavioural change in women.

2. Pointless bickering
              This can also be one of the signs that your mother-in-law might have a problem with you. If a cordial relationship has turned sour from her end, you can expect her to bicker with you for the slightest reasons. This may even involve her grumbling over you for not completing your household chores.

3. Insensitive behaviour

             Your mother-in-law might express her discontent in you by becoming insensitive to your feelings. This can stem from any of your intentional or unintentional act that might have hurt her emotions. You need to understand whether the reason behind you being insulted by her in front of your friends, is due to her usual nature or if there has been any specific reason behind it.

4. Talking through a medium
            If your mother-in-law suddenly stops making eye contact with you and instead asks your husband to pass on the information, it seems she is avoiding you and isn’t happy about something you may or may not have done. It is commonly believed that when people faze you out, they are not really excited or happy about something done by you, whether intentional or unintentional. Using your husband as a spokesperson can be pretty annoying too.    read more >>

Rules should be applicable

              There are times when Women really wish that their husbands could understand what is going on in their minds. Agreed, that understanding women is not easy, but putting an effort to know them is always appreciated. Women love it when men understand them. So, read on to know what every woman wishes her man knew about her.
              Guys, there is no harm in remembering the special days and giving a special treatment to your lady love. They will simply love it, if you go an extra mile to make them feel special. Birthdays, anniversaries, or any other important date might not be a big deal for you but for women it definitely.
             Women want their husbands to be their emotional anchor, someone they can count on when they are wrecked emotionally. So, don’t behave like you do not care about her and that she is going to be fine by herself. understand and be on her side, just the way she does when you are in trouble.

                  Rules should be applicable to all and sunday. If you do not want your girl to talk to someone or do not want them to hang out with someone in particular, then apply the same rule on yourself too. An unbiased attitude is the key to a happy relationship.
              Women may not always ask for favours or help, but they always wish if you could lend them a helping hand. Be it household chores, or any other activity, make them feel that you are always there for them. Women think it leads to a better bonding, and they can depend on you for anything.   more information >>

Indian Gay Couple

Sameer Samudra and Amit Gokhale Gay Couple
                   Here is a side to a regular love and wedding story, which you don’t hear quite often in India. This is not one of those regular boy meets girl, love happens, flowers blossom, violins play and they get married. This story is of two men and their love… for one another!
                 Meet Sameer Samudra and Amit Gokhale an Indian gay couple, settled in the United States, who had the courage to come out of their closets, declare their sexuality to their families and the world, and got married according to traditional Maharashtrian customs.For this beautiful couple, the only thing that matters is to hold each other’s hand

Happy relationships

HAVE HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS
               In real life, law rarely forgives any wrong act. In most of the countries law is clear about punishment. We still hear a lot about forgiving in personal relationships. We are told to forgive the major blunders. We are asked to forgive and forget and continue living as if nothing happened.  more >>
               It’s not mandatory that a being a pregnant mom you need to sacrifice all your styles. It’s the baby shower ceremony knocking at your door. It’s a special one, which is just meant for your expecting one and need to be accomplished in style. That was the
past when people love to choose traditional baby.  more >>
              Is your relationship becoming uncomfortable? Are you no longer enjoying the relationship? Do you not understand what might be going wrong, but you can sense it? You are not happy, but cannot pin point the cause of unhappiness. You want to get away from the relationship but are arguing for and against and getting tired.  more >>

BODY LANGUAGE

Dear friends,
                Have you often wondered why some people make you feel inferior, or how some people are able to communicate so completely, often times without uttering a word? I In those situations and so many more, the people with the power have learned how to use body language to their advantage, from landing that sweet job to the perfect partner.
                Have you wished you could read body signals better, notice those subtle cues that could offer you a wealth of information about the person with whom you are conversing?
                Often times subtle body language signals are missed because we are either not paying close enough attention to the person we are engaged in conversation with, or we simply do not know how to read them. Body Language: Discover and Learn How to Read Body Language can give you the inside track on the numerous different types of body language people use everyday. Effective people use 50% body language and 50% verbal language to express themselves.
              The use of body language alone can take a situation that you would normally be submissive in and turn it around to where you control all the power. Your body is far more powerful then most give it credit. From the way initial you greet a person to the closing of a conversation simply in body language alone can make or break a otherwise perfect job interview. As you are as you carry yourself, so is everyone else.

             Think of the advantage you could have over another by having a really strong idea as to how they are feeling before even expressing themselves.
             Body language  is as unique as you are. Although no two people will exhibit the same types of cues, by knowing all the body language cues it will not matter. You will never have to wonder how another person is feeling ever again. You will never have to wonder if it is the right day to ask the boss for a raise or to ask your spouse about that new car you
have wanted to buy.

Guide to Romantic Relationship

Dear :

             Are you feeling unfulfilled in your current dating life? Do you feel that the passion

and attraction are barely there or missing altogether?

              Whether you’re looking to find that special someone to spend the rest of your life

with or you simply want to enjoy better dates, the fact that you’re reading this means that

something is currently missing in your dating life.


             That was certainly the problem that I had a few years ago. It just seemed that I

couldn’t meet anyone I had anything in common with. My first dates were horror stories

and I rarely made it to a second date.


             I knew I had to do  something.


             That’s when I started to read everything I could on the subject of dating.

              Every single person on earth in any type of relationship desires passion and

romance in his or her life. Unfortunately, there are a few things about romance most people

don’t understand.


What I discovered completely changed my life!



              I leave absolutely nothing out! Everything that I learned in order to improve my

dating I share with you!

              In a time where everything is convenient and available almost at the touch of a

button, the effort of romance seems as if it takes a good deal of effort. It is very possible to

take some old-fashioned romantic ideas and make them work in a modern world while

maintaining the genuine intention behind each thought and act. Romance today can be

filled with unique ideas, creativity and passion. Romance is simply the way you express

your love for another person. It is vital to keeping love fresh, exciting and alive. Without

romance, love can become tiresome and even worse.


I show you how to keep the romance alive in your dating!This is the most comprehensive report on improving your dating that you will ever read! Not only does it include timely tips and advice on understand why romance is so important to successful dating but it will also provide you with tons of specific ideas.
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